Act 4: Scene 1-Tripping the Prince~ Ivy & Bernard (I Won't Give Up on Us)

Tripping Prince Charming is no ordinary tale. Written in acts and scenes, each scene is written with a particular girl in mind and they may cross over and join one another. The main characters have their special avatars and each couple has a theme/favorite song. Watch for the signs and the road will be easy to travel. I hope you enjoy it.      

 Act 4:

 Tripping the Prince 

                        

                         Scene 1 　　　　 　　　　 　

 What's That I See? 

　　　　 　
Pulling into the vacant spot in the front of Ivy's flower shop, Bernard chuckled to himself as he reached over to retrieve the box of candy from the seat of the passenger side of the car. He hoped the gift of chocolates wasn't too corny. After all, how could you bring flowers to the owner of a flower shop? As he lifted the package his gaze immediately focused on Ivy inside the store. She wasn't alone. As a matter of fact, she was smiling and hugging a much larger guy. From the back and even in his plain white t-shirt and jeans, Bernard could see the man would be formidable competition. Women tended to like muscle-bound giants and this guy was definitely one of those. Bernard continued observing the two until the guy walked out of the door, entered his car and drove out of sight. For what seemed like eons he’d continued sitting trying to make up his mind to the feasibility of pursuing his dreams; his dreams won.
　　　　When he entered the shop the transformation from the bright natural sunlight to the cool dimness of the interior distorted Bernard's vision for a moment and he didn't see Ivy standing behind a shelving of greeting cards. Her smile when she peeked around at the sound of the bell was at first, casually friendly and then beaming.
 　　　　"Hi, Bernard," she greeted him softly. "I'm so glad to see you. I was just talking about you."
　　　　"Really? With whom?"
 　　　　"Well, with Carmella and Lillie-Rose of course."
　　　　"Oh. Do you tell them everything?"
 　　　　Ivy laughed. "Yes, I do, pretty much." She went back to straightening the cards. "We talk about everything."
 　　　　"You think you'll ever feel secure enough to do the same with me?"
 　　　　"Not likely."
　　　　Ivy moved to the counter where she rested her bottom on the edge. From where she was perched she would see behind him, out the large pane window and to his car. The exact same view she'd had minutes earlier. She'd seen Bernard pull up and had been so excited and in her excitement she had been a little over exuberant in sending Nathaniel on his way. True, they laughed over Lillie-Rose's disappearing acts at social events, but she guessed the hug had been a little too much for Bernard's fragile confidence in her affections. After all, they had only been dating a few weeks and total trust hadn't been built yet.
　　　　"Some things a girl just can't tell a guy. Especially not the guy she likes beyond endurance." 　　　　"Would you tell me if you preferred someone else?"
　　　　"I’d tell you in a heartbeat. Playing with someone's emotions is something I would never do, the same way I wouldn't want anyone using me for a fool."
 　　　　Bernard cleared his throat and changed the subject. 　　　　
"I brought you something." He took the gold wrapped box of candy from behind him and handed it to her. "I hope you eat candy."
 　　　　"All of the time. Can't you tell by my huge derriere?" Laughing, she turned her butt in his direction before accepting the gift and putting it on the counter.
 　　　　Bernard laughed along with her. “I would never slip your derriere into the ‘huge’ category. I like it just the way it is." He cleared his throat, hoping his question wouldn’t rush him into the needy category in her eye. “Who was that guy, Ivy?”
 　　　　“You mean the one who just left? That’s Nathaniel Wilson. He works for my dad and will be helping me out here on delivery days.”
 　　　　“What was that hug you gave him all about?”
　　　　Ivy laughed. 　　　　
“It was nothing. I just thanked him for continuing to stick with trying to date Lillie-Rose. I believe they’ll make a terrific couple.”
 　　　　“As long as he understands she’s his girl and you’re out of bounds.”
 　　　　“Oh, he does. I have plans for them and I don’t plan on failing. So, what about us? Feel like having lunch?”
 　　　　“You know it. As a matter of fact, I’d gladly starve to death for you.”
　　　　“Not bloody damned likely," She pulled her purse from a drawer under the desk and led the way to the door. “I’m an eater. Can’t you tell from your position behind me? Let’s go get something delicious.”

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Uhmmmhmmm. Yuuup, We Said That~ Discussing Tripping Prince Charming

Hello, so while back, a terrific discussion of Tripping Prince Charming was held on my Facebook page.
Three strong, independent women with no time for romance or girlish notions of knights in shining armor meet their match in three lovestruck men determined to make them believe in Prince Charming and happily ever after. 

 I wanted to share it with those who missed it. The discussion began with a few questions from a White (I mention her color because it pertains to her questions) reader who couldn't join, but sent her questions in a note.

This is her note:

"First let me explain something about my own life that may be relevant. I grew up moving constantly

so got to the point where I really did not have any close friends like the trio in your book. So part of my confusion may come from that. 

But, I also wonder if my question stems from a cultural/racial difference. My problem is that I don''t know how to decipher which is which. The relationship between the three women is so close and so candid . Their dialogue is very direct. This is not in any way a criticism. I thought it was very well written - but it didn't feel "real" to me. So my question is, 

"Do young African American women actually form bonds that close and are they really able to be so frank with each other? Is that really how such friendships work?" Or am I the anomaly and, "Do all young women who form close friendships as teens and interact that way with each other?" 

Is there a cultural difference, subtle though it may be, between how Black women relate to each other in the U. S. and how white women do in the same society? 

Third, what about cross racial friendships. Are there differences?

This really struck me as I was reading because I felt like I was looking into a foreign culture. It was richly and beautifully portrayed but I had difficulty relating to it. I'd love to touch on this when I write my review but it would help if I got a better insight into my questions. In other words, is it just me, because I've been isolated and never formed such friendships, or is this really a cultural difference that you have illustrated so well?

That's what made the discussion on the thread so interesting. It is these subtle differences that can't be grasped unless you have grown up in a particular culture. For me, unless, as I said, I am the odd one out, (definitely possible) if your trio had been white I would have found your story far less believable.

I would truly love to pursue this question in the discussion, both because I think it would get into some really interesting ideas but also because I will learn from it."

Though the discussion was to be lighthearted it did become a topic on race and it's relationship to making and being a true friend. It began with a series of questions from a reader who later emailed, saying I and a few commenters got her intent wrong. I personally believe it is all in a person's perception and interpretation. Her email(the reader also stated she is a socialist. I like that, hope the conversation brought growth.: "I have learned to recognize my prejudices and to get over them. The fact that those people saw racism in my question proves that they, too are racist. Otherwise they would have taken my question at face value, in the same vein as it was asked... Perhaps if I had been present in the discussion I could have made all that clearer." 

 MY RESPONSE: I think it would've been a different conversation if you had been there. More than being a racist thing, I believe it was more like a knee-jerk reaction. With those of the Black race it felt as if the human factor was being questioned.  Whether or not those answering were racist or merely stating an opinion, is on them. I personally saw no racism, not even from you. I saw confusion from you both in the friendship arena, and then in the cultural. Does that mean you are racist? I honestly felt as if you saw the Black race as different when it comes to having the same emotions as any other people. Which is why I posed your questions, I too wanted to know if others felt friendships were different within their area of life. I know nothing about a certain "culture" because I have always been around varied people. As far as I am concerned, and it seems as if many saw it, race didn't play a role in how we react to people we call friends. We agree, we disagree, we move on. I am no different when it comes to feeling as if I'm being examined by race than anyone, I always wonder where it's coming from. It's human nature, not racism. Closed minded, in my opinion is a focus on one thing, not necessarily the be all and end all of thought. I would think if anyone was questioned in a stereotypical vein they would feel defensive. No different than if someone said, you can't be friends with redheads because they fly off the handle. Or wondering if all redheads fight? Or asking if blondes can learn anything because they seem brainless. People defend their ideals. Talk on culture causes conversation and not necessarily anger or dissent. I think if you ask a question you have to be able to accept all of the answers. It's the only way to develop a hypothesis. If you see me in a different light than I have always shown myself, then I can't help that. I'll see you as no different. I am and will always be the same person. Ey

 

 READER'S QUESTION: Do young African American women actually form bonds that close and are they really able to be so frank with each other? Is that really how such friendships work?" Or am I the anomaly and, "Do all young women who form close friendships as teens and interact that way with each other?"

 Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod I don't think race has anything to do with it.I know I have a group of friends that know EVERYTHING about me, and we have these such interactions frequently. Without them, I would be lost.

 Ey Wade I have always taken friendships as they come, no matter the race. It is a matter of kinship and not necessarily of culture. Everyone brings something different to the table.

 Ey Wade That's how I feel too Donna.

 Ey Wade READER'S QUESTION: there a cultural difference, subtle though it may be, between how Black women relate to each other in the U'S. and how white women do in the same society?

 Inknbeans Press Friendships that last from childhood are almost like extensions of one's self. These people can finish your sentences and laugh at a one word comment because they associate it with 'do you remember that time...' They are also convinced they know what's best for you. That seems to describe Lillie-Rose, Carmella and Ivy.

 Ey Wade I agree. I loved those girls because they knew each other by a simple facial expression or the use of a certain word.

Inknbeans Press Regarding the second question: Is it race or location? These women reminded me, to an extent, of the characters in Steel Magnolias.

Laurie E. Boris I've seen close female friends being utterly frank with each other.

 Ey Wade I can see you seeing that, Inknbeans. They are like an extension of each other. The match making was too funny.  The reader explained how she is from Canada and the bluntness, more like the butting in, isn't part of their normal culture.

 Laurie E. Boris Ah. A little different from Americans. Usually.

 Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod Yes, exactly. I grew up, from the third grade on, in village...literally. I knew everyone in that town, everyones parents, sisters, brothers grandparents, but I did not connect with everyone. The girls I connected with at an early age, I stayed connected with and am still connected with them to this day. It's precious.

 Ey Wade In the story, if the ladies weren't true friends, I don't think the story would have worked out.

 Ed Drury Being somewhat familiar with your other works, I thought Tripping was a very deliberate change in direction for you. Something of a concept piece which seemed to lend itself to stage or screen. Had you had any thoughts of these characters performing these lines on a stage while you wrote it?

 Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod That is true. There are members of my group of friends who can walk into my house and say "Something stinks in here." Anyone else would be horrified, but I know they are saying this because they know I have no sense of smell, and it is up to them to help me out with this.

 Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod I, too, thought this would be a good stage play.

 Ey Wade ANOTHER QUESTION FROM THE READER: Third, what about cross racial friendships. Are there differences? This really struck me as I was reading because I felt like I was looking into a foreign culture. It was richly and beautifully portrayed but I had difficulty relating to it.

 Ey Wade I would LOVE to see it as a play. These ladies were so alive to me, not to mention pushy I would like to see the words coming from flesh.

 Ey Wade I like it when people can be totally blunt with me. That way I know they are being themselves. That's how I wanted these girls to come off. Not to mention the guys. Lol. I wanted the same for them, especially real emotions.

 Ey Wade Laurie, do you think Americans have different reactions to friendships?

 Ed Drury From my experience my black friends and my white friends seem to view the issue of race quite differently from each other. I think whites in American image a "post racial America" and tend to dismiss any cultural differences. Clearly there is a lot to be learned about each other if we drop pretense and guilt. People have difficulty doing that with each other, racial stuff aside. 

Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod I have one friend, who is the "is that what you're wearing?" friend. You know what I mean.

 Inknbeans Press I was just thinking of that example, Donna. And that person isn't saying it to insult you, but to make sure you look your best.

 Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod Well, that's what she says, anyway...I just know it's my cue to go change.

 Ed Drury So long as they have M&Ms they can say whatever, eh?

 Ey Wade I know exactly what you mean, Donna.

 Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod Damn straight. Donna Dillon-Truckenbrod My son has one african american friend and race always comes up somehow. We have just learned to roll with it. We have a lot of fun together. I always tell him that he is whiter than I am.

 Ey Wade Sometimes, Ed I think people of different races try to shield each other's feelings too much when they become friends. I think you should be open and cultural difference wouldn't matter.

 Ed Drury I was wondering if you've had much feed back from male readers about TPC?

 Ey Wade Not much. Which is why I valued your beta and the review. You're deep and critical.

 Ey Wade So, what opinion do you all have about the format of Tripping Prince Charming?

 Ed Drury I thought it a bit risky but you pulled it off in the end. Really brave format, I thought it was leading in a full on multimedia kind of thing. I'd love to see a version formatted for a tablet like the fire and with full permissions to play the songs and all.

 Ey Wade That would be awesome because each song makes the couple. I do have them on the blog, though.

 RH Ramsey Isola Author I agree with the comments so far. I don't really think race has anything to do with how close or blunt or candid people are. To me, it just depends on what types of boundaries have been set. Like someone else said, friends whove known each other since childhood might put it all out there and say it like they mean it. If they're new friends or private about their private lives, completely changes the discussions. Loved the friendship the girls had, and loved the role "pops" played as well.

 Ey Wade The story started off as three separate books, then was supposed to be one after the other but some how ended in that format.

 Ed Drury Pops wins the day in the end. The smartest one in every room it would seem. I could read a book all about his life as a young person, you know how he came to be the person he is.

 RH Ramsey Isola Author I appreciated "stay" ... I'd had it on repeat and then saw it as a crucial part of the book.

 Ey Wade Girl, uhm RH Ramsey, if it weren't for you he would've been a minor character. All you had to say was, I wish I knew more about him. Ed, I've thought about it. He did make the story in the end.

 Ey Wade "Stay" is what changed the format. I was riding in the car writing a piece about Lillie-Rose and when I heard Rihanna ' s song I felt so sad for Lillie-Rose. The entire piece went through my mind as an interlude and I could figure out how to put a break in the middle of a book and then continue with the rest. Entire format change.

 Ey Wade The idea of Acts and Scenes really challenged me. That was the reason for icons to show change.
RH Ramsey Isola Author That was really unique, Ey.

Ed Drury Do you feel that the acts and scenes structure helped you like an outline?

 Ey Wade What did you feel about the trick Franklin played on Carmella in their first scene? Would you trust a guy who went to that extreme.

 Ed Drury I remember thinking he was a complete dick.

 Ey Wade Lol, me too. I think I wouldn't have given him a second look.

 Ey Wade It did in a way, Ed. It helped me go through all of the books to put them together. Thanks RH Ramsey

 RH Ramsey Isola Author Did pops have a special song? I don't remember him having one? What would it be??

 Ey Wade I loved Ruby Mountain. What feelings did you get from the area? Sometimes I didn't feel as if I describe it enough.

 RH Ramsey Isola Author Depending on my connection with people, i give chances. People have bad days and "you play too much" moments. Sometimes disappear and have a bad feeling and never look back

 RH Ramsey Isola Author It was something that inspired me to really work on my own details. It was so beautiful. Went with the fairy tale theme.

  Ey Wade Good then it worked. It's the kind of place I would like to hang out. Feeds The romantic side while relaxing the old spirit.

 Ey Wade I know I mentioned a song for Pops, oh in the scene when he's scaring heck out of Nathaniel.

 RH Ramsey Isola Author What's the song

  Ey Wade John Mayer's song- Daughters Inknbeans Press Was it Daughters?

 Ey Wade I tend to get a lot of feedback about Lillie-Rose, she seems to be a favorite. I wonder why.

 Inknbeans Press She's an overcomer.

 Ey Wade Yes, sorry. Moving from house to car. I think the song said it just right. Pops doesn't play when it comes to those girls.

 RH Ramsey Isola Author Did any particular character "speak to you" more than others? Was anyone's storyline more challenging than others?

 Ey Wade Hmmm, I think Carmella ' s was the hardest. I had to get her around being pissed at Franklin to loving him. Lillie-Rose, hard as she was, I knew she would be a marshmallow. Lol someone told me the other day, they thought Ivy was too messy.

 Ey Wade Inknbeans Press, I guess that's the thing. I love Nathaniel. He takes a lot but stands right there for her.

 Ey Wade One last question. What was your opinion about the little old lady, Esther Rose and the riot being in the book? Inknbeans Press I liked her. And discussing the riot gave the story gravitas. People learn something while being entertained.

 Ey Wade I posed the questions from the reader in a few other social networks and the responses were very similar to the answers here. No sees a difference in friendships by race. As long as people are treated as humans and not a species of animal who just doesn't understand human emotions.

 Inknbeans Press It's a love story. That's a pretty universal theme.

 RH Ramsey Isola Author exactly!

   Christina W.: I am unable to speak on what friendships are like among other races but I would like to share from my position as a black woman and one whom has friendships within and outside my race.  What I do love and find to be true is that my friendships with women of color ( African Americans and Hispanics) are definitely lively, direct in delivery and what an observer may call "rich in dialogue".  Our conversations often flow with an "ease" of understanding based on certain life commonalities and experiences.  We talk about things that regardless of geographical upbringing just seem to be universally part of the "black" or minority experience.  "Be home before the streetlights come on", influence of music, family ties, community involvement and so many other things.  Culture is a major part of who I am and when I connect on that level it definitely makes for a good foundation.  I am not saying that I can't have meaningful relationships with white friends because I do, but it is still different.   When I was younger I didn't engage my white friends in certain conversations for their comfort and I believe to protect the friendship because I knew that if the "wrong" thing was said it would forever change us.  However, as I've grown I realize that is a disservice to the friendship and doesn't beget vulnerability.  So now those that are in my crew get ALL of me and my truth :)

So to answer in a summary, I do find that with my black friends the friendships are very frank, we love on an innate "sisterhood" level and because of how the greater society can dismiss us we stick together with a bond of " I love you girl regardless if nobody else does".

Ey Wade: I understand.  I've had close relationships with different people of several races and have always been myself. For those who felt any racial issues they had to handle that on their own. I feel friendships are personal and can only be based on the true commitment of the people involved.


 Lou LaFollette A note to the commentator (READER). Your failure to develop close friendships is a direct result of your continuous mobility during your youth. Making friends in the peer group is extremely important developmentally. It is the first step in achieving independence. Judith Rich Harris has written a book, "The Nurture Assumption" which details the psychological importance of these peer relationships. (I disagree with Ms. Harris when she debunks the importance of the infantile years, but she is right on the adolescent years.) Children in military families, or children in foster care are especially susceptible to this failure to develop peer relationships because of excessive mobility. (Many of those early peer relationships prove to be life long.) To the degree that race is involved as a factor, I would say it is because of the differences in relative mobility. Also female dominated black families have learned to maintain relationships under very trying circumstances. (Black children in foster care tend to be cared for within the extended family, rather than by strangers, which is what is typical for white children in foster care.)

Michael J. Wow! The woman making the inquiry is definitely the odd person out. It is very common for women of all races and cultures to have close bonds with one another. Anything to the contrary is an aberration. Unfortunately, the woman making the inquiry is the person deprived of the rich and full relationships women of all races and cultures share with one another. This woman's void of close friendships with other women is a major deficit for her. How sad...

Elaine D. Our rich capacity as human beings to love and enjoy deep, meaningful friendships with others is not down to culture or skin colour: It is a gift from God, our Creator, who describes himself as the very essence of Love. Time spent with others, sharing our vulnerabilities, giving without expecting anything in return, and being there to encourage, support and inspire through the tough times are the seeds from which spring beautiful friendships, We need to care a little more and reach out more often...

Ey Wade: I agree Elaine. I had never thought of the capacity of friendship being measured by race.

Trace Loveless Hill No, since I am a Urban Christian Writer that would be closed minded.

Ey Wade It does sound a bit closed minded. As an author, I feel frustrated with the idea of non POC seeing use as a species without the same emotions and reactions as them.

Ey Wade:  That's exactly how I felt. You miss a lot when you don't have friends.

Michael J.: The deprivation caused when she was a child has nothing to do with her ability to foster close relationships as an adult. You are not responsible for her inability to relate to the character's voices in your book (which I'm sure are drawn from some of your real-life observations/experiences). A lot of people like to blame their parents and childhood experiences for their anti-social behavior, inability to adjust, you name it; when in reality they don't want to put in the work required to change whatever it is that needs to be changed (in them). I'll bet you haven't received any other letters/inquiries citing such bizarre behavior. I'm not being flippant, but the woman sounds like she needs a few years of good therapy with a professional in that field. I believe your title is "author" Ms. Wade, not shrink. Write on my sister. Write on!

Ey Wade: You're right, I haven't had any. I've had friendships of all races and have been candid and myself which helped me to learn a lot about other people. I'll keep writing, believe me. Thanks for responding.

Devon Said--I agree with Michael because I've learned how to show myself friendly earlier on in life in that my first best girlfriend just happened to be Caucasian; and that worked out just fine with the both us. Later on as I grew older I had another good friend who was a co-worker for many years and who was also white. We both got along just fine...and in fact we called each other "Salt & Pepper" as an inside joke to anyone around us who seemed to have a problem with it because of their racial insecurities. And even up until today we’re still good friends and have kept in touch with each other down through the years. I believe that in order to maintain good friendships with people of other races and ethnic persuasions—we must first start at being secure enough to love ourselves unconditionally and then be willing to share that unconditional love with someone else. Thanks so much for sharing with us and may God richly bless you! Peace.

Ey Wade: Thank you, Devon for commenting. I love the idea of open conversations. Before these questions I had no idea others wondered about the inner workings of friendships.

Yvonne Hertzberger: Michael: Ouch! I think that was completely uncalled for. My behavior is far from bizarre. In fact there is no "behavior" here at all. You are jumping to conclusions based on false assumptions and defensiveness. I asked a deep question. I see the response from the previous LinkedIn commenter and she makes some good points. Her observations are based on experience and learning. Yours are simply nasty and judgmental. I asked a sociological question. No shrink necessary, thank you very much. In fact I have close relationships, a 42 year successful marriage and raised two well adjusted children. Take that chip off your shoulder. I actual fact I liked the book very much.

Ey Wade:  I'm really glad you liked the book, Yvonne. Hopefully your questions were answered. Most believe friendships develop and deepen according to the dynamics of the individuals involved, not necessarily culture. It all depends on what the people want to receive from the relationship.

 Yvonne Hertzberger: Thanks. I'm going to reread it with fresh eyes before I post a review. 

Ey Wade Thanks everyone for stopping by.

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Tripping Prince Charming- and you thought you were over fairytales.

"The author Ey Wade brings to the readers' attention,  three very unique and sweet, interconected love stories. The quest of finding Prince Charming leads to an ending with a fairy tale taste. But it is the path that the three couples need to walk together that is sweet, full of recpect and patience. If you love unique novels with an unusual approach you must dive into that love tale!"  Selina Bodur
Author of "Fighting the Impossible"

Carmella Candi, Ivy Gardiner, and Lillie-Rose McIntyre are best friends.  Strong minded women, who defied the fairytales, tore up the pink fluffy dresses and enjoyed pulling Prince Charming through the ringer and giving him a run for his money. They decided when 'happily' became 'ever after'.

Join the discussion of Tripping Prince Charming on Ey Wade's Facebook page. https://www.facebook.com/EyWade.author.publisher *Will the ladies stay or run away? *Will it be the fairytale romance of the century?  *Where is the fairy godmother when you need her? *Can women really have friendships that are that close or is it a cultural thing? 

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Can Your Race Determine the Believability of Friendship?

On tomorrow there is a planned discussion of the novel Tripping Prince Charming to be held on my Facebook page. http://facebook.com/EyWade.author.publisher A reader, who will not be able to attend, sent a few questions a head of time. They pertain to friendships, culture, and whether or not close female relationships are a Black thing or is it possible within all races. I hadn't ever thought about it, seeing it as a natural thing. But hat if you hadn't built friendships,  relationships such as the girls have in Tripping Prince Charming.  Would you find such closeness an oddity?  I can understand her question from her point of view as it is coming from 1) A loner 2) A person of noncolor and 3) As she termed it, a Canadian culture who is not that blunt.
What is your take on this?

Following are her questions please join the discussion.

"First let me explain something about my own life that may be relevant. I grew up moving constantly so got to the point where I really did not have any close friends like the trio in your book. So part of my confusion may come from that. 

But, I also wonder if my question stems from a cultural/racial difference. My problem is that I don''t know how to decipher which is which. The relationship between the three women is so close and so candid . Their dialogue is very direct. This is not in any way a criticism. I thought it was very well written - but it didn't feel "real" to me. So my question is, 

"Do young African American women actually form bonds that close and are they really able to be so frank with each other? Is that really how such friendships work?" Or am I the anomaly and, "Do all young women who form close friendships as teens and interact that way with each other?" 

Is there a cultural difference, subtle though it may be, between how Black women relate to each other in the U'S. and how white women do in the same society? 

Third, what about cross racial friendships. Are there differences?

This really struck me as I was reading because I felt like I was looking into a foreign culture. It was richly and beautifully portrayed but I had difficulty relating to it. I'd love to touch on this when I write my review but it would help if I got a better insight into my questions. In other words, is it just me, because I've been isolated and never formed such friendships, or is this really a cultural difference that you have illustrated so well?

That's what made the discussion on the thread so interesting. It is these subtle differences that can't be grasped unless you have grown up in a particular culture. For me, unless, as I said, I am the odd one out, (definitely possible) if your trio had been white I would have found your story far less believable.

I would truly love to pursue this question in the discussion, both because I think it would get into some really interesting ideas but also because I will learn from it.

Now, do you see why #WeNeedDiverseBooks ?

My answer would have to be, friendship and the reaction to them are a personal thing. I believe one may have a stronger bond with a friend or friends than they have with a sibling. Even in the dynamics of a group friendship the bond may be stronger towards one certain individual.
Whether or not it is believable to an outsider depends on what that person has experienced in their life and relationships.

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Let's Discuss : What Happens When You Throw a Wrench at Prince Charming.

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This will be a treat. For me and the readers of Tripping Prince Charming. A full out conversation on the story, what worked or didn't, how romance plays a big part in relationships and whether or not the element of happily ever after really exists.
Join us Sunday June 20th on the novel's Amazon page















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Do You Compromise for Love? #romance Eartha Kitt's Opinion

What is your opinion on compromising for love? Do you give up yourself and your beliefs for the love of another? As a woman, do you feel it is your duty in life to be the one to give in on your ideals in order to secure the place in the heart of the man who professes to be in love with you or do you love your self enough to stand strong?

 I have a little bit of a hard time with those questions, I think compromising or agreeing on different opinions in a relationship is a good thing because no two people think or feel the same, I just don't believe you should totally change for another. Eventually, that mold you have poured yourself into will crack and the real you will come out.

 I love this interview with Eartha Kitt, a woman who states her mind. It would be the epitome of a love story to love yourself before trying to love someone else or have them love you.

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Scenes From a Break Up- Part 3 Franklin & Carmella #romance #romanceinblack #amreading

Interlude Stay-Scenes of a Breakup

 Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, misunderstandings can cause heartache. It is the hope in the ones we love, the belief in the relationship we thrive for, that will illuminate and correct the problem in the end. Musical Selection:"Stay" by Rihanna feat. Mikky Ekko

Scene 3

 Carmella: Devastated and heart broken follows her dream as he prepares to leave her for good.

Franklin climbed into the driver's seat of his car and pulled the door shut before rolling down the window. He'd walked out of Carmella's house and hadn't turned back as she called out behind him. He was tired. For weeks they'd dated or rather met each other around town because Carmella wasn't sure she could trust him yet.

He watched her as she approached slowly, her fingers twisting and untwisting around and into each other, bottom lip pouting and trembling, a solitary tear resting on the tip of her lower lashes. This was the hardest thing he'd ever done in life, but it had to be done. As much as he wanted to grab her up and hold her in his arms, he had to back away and let her figure out what she wanted with her future. He could no longer pretend he didn't care as much as he really did. Stifling his urges, his passion, his love, was breaking his heart. He had to call the relationship off. ~

Carmella heard the words Franklin was saying, but couldn't comprehend. She could see his lips moving, but her mind was blocking out her ability to put the sentences in any logical context. What was he saying? She shook her head to clear the fog, but it didn't help. She no more wanted to hear him than she wanted to hear what he was saying. Was he really saying they should break-up?

 "What are you saying?" Her voice came out in barely a whisper. "I'm saying this is not working for me. I can't keep coming here day in and out and not know how I will find you. What frame of mind will you be in? Will you love me or will you push me away? I can't take it anymore. I can't be the toad you kick around because you aren't ready to have a prince in your life. I've been telling you this for days now. Call me when you're ready to stop thwarting my every effort to make this relationship work. Carmella watched as he drove off slowly. So slow, she could have run after him and stopped him. She could have reached out and grabbed the door handle before he left the drive. When the brake lights brightened she released her breath, so sure he was returning, only to catch her breath again at the sight of a squirrel darting safely between the tires as he drove out of sight. She pressed her palm to her chest in the hope of steadying her aching heart.

Tears rolled down her face as she whispered softly to the empty sky, "I want you to stay."

VIEW MORE SCENES
Scenes of a Break Up-Part 1- Lillie-Rose & Nathaniel-
Scenes of a Break Up- Part 2- Ivy & Bernard

 

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